Hello, Although the sun is shining for once in the UK and its warm, I have had a rough day and have spent most of it crying and I am ashamed to say I have self harmed because of the depth of feeling. I want to know how many others out there are having the same day all because they got a divorce recently or a while ago and haven't quite recovered confidence in themselves. My divorce was signed off, if you like on the 28th October 2017. It was a relief after spending two years sorting it all out and sitting stagnating in a big house waiting for the damn thing to sell so I could start afresh while my husband just walked away when our love died and shacked up with another woman as I helped my daughter through her GCSEs. It was easier for him and I do feel a shed load of resentment but I am not here to discuss blame. I want to talk about all of the emotions and fears you feel after the divorce papers are signed and everything has been shared out. It doesn't matter whe